The two sides:
"For a while now, I've felt like Pooty's been drifting away from me. I know I can be kinda controlling sometimes, but he always said he wanted what was best for both of us. He used to like makin' me happy, but now, it's like he's less interested in my needs."
"The man is an officious, sanctimonious asshole of a control freak who has completely destroyed everything he's touched, including this relationship. I mean, please. I especially hate it when he tries to bully me by standing too close and not giving me my space. I want out and I want out now. "